Basic Principles on How to Talk to Your Kids

by Dr. Marvin Krank, Principal Investigator, Project on Adolescent Trajectories and Health (PATH), Okanagan University College © 2003 Marvin Krank, Ph.D.

Listen first.

Four principles of effective persuasion:

• Be understanding and try to see things from their perspective e.g. “That must be difficult.”
• Present facts contrary to what they might be told e.g. “Did you know that marijuana interferes with male sex hormones?”
• Don’t confront or challenge. Work around the issue.
• Be supportive and positive about your child e.g. “You can do it."

Be prepared and tell the truth.